My time as the pastor of Cameron Presbyterian Church is coming to a close. What follows is the sermon from this past fourth Sunday of Advent. I have two more sermons to preach for my church, one on Christmas Eve and one final sermon on Sunday, December 26th…my last Sunday. I will post my Christmas Eve sermon here on the blog but I am debating posting my final sermon. It may just be too personal to post. Thanks to all of you, near and far, who have been following our blog. Dan and I definitely plan to keep the blog up and running and will post our sermons, theological reflections, and random musings in our new positions at Monmouth College in Monmouth, IL. May God’s peace be with you all as we celebrate this holy season and move into our new year full of new beginnings….
“Do Not Fear”
Rev. Dr. Teri McDowell Ott
December 19th, 2010 – Fourth Sunday of Advent
We live in frightening times. People are afraid. People are anxious and afraid for their children. People are anxious and afraid about their jobs. People are anxious about losing the life that they have self-constructed and they are afraid because they know that the loss of these things is inevitable.[1] We live in frightening times. But it’s not just these times…because we humans are also timelessly afraid of death and of loss. We are timelessly afraid of the stranger. We are timelessly afraid of those who think and act differently. We are timelessly afraid of change. We are timelessly afraid of all that we cannot control, of all that is beyond our human power.
Alyce McKenzie, in a sermon on fear, suggests it’s a good practice to name our fears, to name the knots that fear has balled up in our stomachs. Illustrating this point she tells the story of Gary. “Gary is a computer analyst in his mid-forties and he has been married and divorced twice, most recently about three years ago. For about a year he has been dating a wonderful woman…named Gina, also divorced and with an adorable seven-year-old daughter she is trying to get full custody of. Gary and Gina came to me [McKenzie writes] last winter and asked if I would marry them at the end of April. Our counseling and wedding planning were going along fine until, along about mid-March, Gary began to develop a case of very cold feet. When he shared this with Gina…instead of getting angry, she suggested he go away for a daylong retreat to be alone with God and himself, to get clear about things. Gary started driving with no particular destination. He ended up at a beautiful site near Lake Texoma.”
“[Gary] got out of his car and began to walk [McKenzie continues] to soothe his jangled nerves, to center his thoughts on God. He sat down on a bench that overlooked the lake and he tried to unravel the knots in his stomach.”
“As he stared out at the lake…it became clear to him that there were three knots in his stomach, and each had a name. One of the knots was his fear that he would just keep repeating the same relationship mistakes. The second knot in his stomach was the fear of the chaos and pain that could come from the custody battle facing Linda. And the third knot in his stomach was maybe the hardest, knottiest of all: it was the fear that maybe he was just not worthy of another person’s love and was destined to have to face his future alone.”[2]
McKenzie concludes her illustration by suggesting that it is wise to take some time, to find a quiet spot and get some focus on our fears. Name the knots in your stomach. Name that which is physically causing you stress and anxiety so you can bring it into proper perspective.
Do your knots hold the names of the people you are worried about? Spouse. Parent. Child. Sibling. Is your knot named after your marriage? Is your knot named after your uncertain future? Is your knot currently on a moving truck to Illinois with all your worldly possessions? Oh….I need a minute….
Focus on your fear. Name your knots. And then hear these words from the prophet Isaiah.
Strengthen the weak hands,
And make firm the feeble knees.
Say to those who are of a fearful heart,
Be strong, do not fear!
Here is your God.[3]
Perhaps the most pervasive command in all of scripture is, “Do not fear!” From cover to cover our scriptures proclaim, “Do not be afraid.” When the glory of the Lord shone around those shepherds and an angel appeared, they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid!” And Jesus constantly encouraged his disciples not to live in fear. He constantly encouraged them because they were constantly afraid. When he decided to go to Jerusalem, the disciples were afraid and begged him not to go. When he was arrested, they all fled in fear. After his crucifixion they cowered in fear in a locked room. And when a few of them ventured to the place of burial early Sunday morning and found the tomb empty, the encouraging words came again: “Do not be afraid!”[4]
The bible tells us over and over again not to be afraid and it does so because fear is the enemy of life. John Buchanan, in an article on this passage, writes, “Fear is such an enemy of life. It’s hard to love when you are afraid. It’s hard to care passionately when you’re afraid. It’s impossible to be joyful about anything when you are afraid. Fear limits life, constrains life, pollutes life. Fear can be a good thing when it alerts us to danger. But…when fear becomes overwhelming….it takes over.” Living in fear is not really living. Fear is not life-giving. So the bible tells us over and over again, “Do not fear.”
Of course, this is easier said than done. We do, after all, live in frightening times. There is much to be afraid of. So how do we escape being ruled by our fears?
At a preaching conference I recently heard Dr. Craig Barnes speak about fear and about how we might escape it. Dr. Barnes wisely said that the only way to get rid of fear is to be loved out of it. Think about it, he said, you can’t argue anyone out of their fear. You can’t rationalize them out of it. The only way to get rid of fear is to be loved out of it. When your little child wakes up in the middle of the night terrified and screaming because there is a monster in his room, you don’t get up and go to his door and say, “Now Isaac, we’ve talked about this…there’s no such thing as monsters and they certainly don’t live under your bed.” No! Barnes’ said. You rush into the room and pull Isaac into your arms and you love him until he’s no longer thinking about monsters but instead about those loving arms that are embracing him.[5] Again, the only way to get rid of fear is to be loved out of it.
Dr. Barnes’ words were very wise. And they are good for us to hear especially during this season of Advent. I recently read a devotion that suggested that—just like we give up something for Lent each year—that we give up fear for Advent. Give up fear? Is that even possible? Well, perhaps it is when we consider what all we are celebrating. During Advent we prepare ourselves for the birth of the Christ child, for the birth of Emmanuel, or God-with-us. During Advent we remember that God loves us so much that God chose to be incarnate, that God chose to be flesh with flesh, that God chose to live with us, to live among us, and to live among all that frightens us. During Advent we remember that God risked everything, entering our scary and frightening world as a vulnerable newborn baby. God did this, God took this risk so we could feel and know and experience the embrace of God’s amazing love.
The great poet Madeleine L’Engle writes:
This is no time for a child to be born,
With the earth betrayed by war & hate
And a comet slashing the sky to warn
That time runs out & the sun burns late.
That was no time for a child to be born,
In a land in the crushing grip of Rome;
Honour & truth were trampled by scorn—
Yet here did the Savior make his home.
When is the time for love to be born?
The inn is full on the planet earth,
And by a comet the sky is torn—
Yet Love still takes the risk of birth.[6]
We live in frightening times. There is much to be afraid of. And our fears certainly could rule our lives. But this Advent, perhaps we could give up that fear. Perhaps we could give up our fear because God has heard our terrified screams, has come rushing to our room and is here to love us out of our fear. God is here to pull us into God’s arms and to love us until we’re no longer thinking about monsters under our bed, but about those loving arms that are embracing us.
Strengthen the weak hands,
And make firm the feeble knees.
Say to those who are of a fearful heart,
Be strong, do not fear!
Here is your God.[7]
Now to this loving God, be all honor and glory, thanksgiving and power, now and forevermore. Amen.
[1] Dr. Craig Barnes at the Lectionary Homiletics 2010 Conference in Nashville, TN.
[2] Alyce M. McKenzie, “Novel Preaching,” (Westminster John Knox Press, Louisville, KY, 2010), pgs. 127-128.
[3] Isaiah 35: 3-4
[4] John Buchanan, “Preaching the Advent Texts,” in Journal for Preachers, Advent 2010, pg. 11.
[5] Dr. Craig Barnes, from his lecture at the May 2010 Festival of Homiletics in Nashville, TN.
[6] Madeleine L’Engle, “The Ordering of Love,” (Waterbrook Press, Colorado Springs, CO, 2005), pg. 155.
[7] Isaiah 35: 3-4